By Auxiliary Bishop Joseph Ha Chi-shing, OFM
Life in Hong Kong is hectic. How much time do families, in reality, spend talking together? The seminary community is also a kind of family. Once a month, the rector and seminarians gather informally to chat, reflect on the past weeks, and take turns sharing one or two moments that have touched them. While this may seem like an ordinary enough activity, but does it hold any spiritual meaning? It certainly does. For a Christian family, deeper, regular conversation brings many spiritual and relational benefits:
Building trust: Honest dialogue helps people understand one another’s thoughts, feelings, and needs, thereby strengthening mutual trust. Misunderstandings can be resolved in time, avoiding unnecessary tension or conflict.
Emotional connection: In difficult times, open conversation allows family members to support and encourage one another. In happy moments, sharing and celebrating together deepens affection and unity.
Passing on values: Through everyday conversation, elders become examples for the young, naturally demonstrating Christian virtues and conduct. In this way, the faith’s values are reinforced, helping the young make sound choices when facing life’s challenges.
Creating community: Regular, relaxed gatherings help shape a group’s shared culture and identity. A light-hearted atmosphere fosters unity and helps everyone feel that they belong and play a meaningful part.
Coping with pressure: Sharing experiences and feelings teaches people to face challenges together, easing anxiety and strengthening both resilience and adaptability.
Spiritual growth: Sharing faith experiences inspires and encourages mutual growth. Some of these shared moments can even become prayer intentions, drawing the family into a shared spiritual life and a deeper foundation of faith.
Indeed, regular conversation and communication not only draw people closer but also help Christian families live their faith more authentically. Of course, putting this into practice consistently is not easy. Yet, as St. Paul reminds us: “So then, while we have the opportunity, let us do good to all, but especially to those who belong to the family of the faith.” [Galatians 6:10]
