Easter is the time to celebrate life and success and above all the happy lives of hundreds of children who were once dead to themselves and to the world but have found a new lease on life. They suffered physical, sexual and psychological abuse. They were just existing but not living, dead in spirit and then saved, rescued, cared for and healed and they came back to life. A resurrection from death in the spirit to a new life.
In one family alone, four children renamed the “Happy Four” were saved and healed at the Preda home. They received new names, Kardi, 10, an adopted girl, three boys Juan 8, Roberto 6, and the eldest, Jun 14, all victims of online sexual abuse.
They survived years of abuse without hope of an end because their parents, relatives and guardians were their abusers. They had an online sex abuse business. They horrifically sexually exploited the four children one by one, again and again, for different customers through live streaming over encrypted mobile phones for foreign pedophiles. They earned huge sums of money.
These child victims survived in shame. International police in Switzerland intercepted one of the livestreamed sex shows, sent over the lines of Internet Service Providers. They contacted the Philippine police. The children were rescued from years of misery and were referred to the Preda Foundation home for abused and trafficked children. They are now healed, happy, vibrant children full of life. They are playing, singing, dancing and happily going to school and studying their lessons.
They survived years of abuse without hope of an end because their parents, relatives and guardians were their abusers
They have had their resurrection, a new life of freedom from abuse when they moved from suffering and sadness to freedom and happiness at the Preda children’s home. Here they are protected, cared for and loved with 68 other children healing and in full recovery.
They have had a new life experience coming from darkness to light. They expressed all their suffering and sorrow through Emotional Release Therapy. They cried out their pain and they healed. They were empowered and became strong so that they have the courage and confidence and are ready to testify and win justice in the court of law.
Every year, an average of 20 Preda children win convictions of their abusers. They are then free for the rest of their lives. Hundreds of child victims of human trafficking and sexual abuse have had their spiritual resurrection having been rescued and given new life at the Preda Foundation through the truly dedicated staff.
This is God’s love working through the committed service of the Preda healers of children: leaders, social workers, facilitators, teachers, therapists and spiritual guides and supporters.
The dedicated professional staff of the Preda team has brought new life to thousands of children, helping them heal and overcome adversity. Led by its president, Francis Bermido Jr., the team is advocating and proposing a new law to establish a special court for abused children, with trained judges who will deliver freedom, justice, and closure for child victims. They are asking for public support for this initiative.
As we celebrate the 500 years of Christianity in the Philippines. The Chaplaincy to Filipino Migrants organises an on-line talk every Tuesday at 9.00pm. You can join us at:
https://www.Facebook.com/CFM-Gifted-to-give-101039001847033
They were empowered and became strong so that they have the courage and confidence and are ready to testify and win justice in the court of law
The law will require uninterrupted and speedy trials through continuous hearings, as recommended by the Supreme Court. Each trial should be completed in two to three months. Strict rules for prosecutors, police, and judges will ensure its implementation to deliver justice. The new law will also require the establishment of many more therapeutic homes with trained staff, including therapists and paralegal officers. These homes will be continually supported and funded by local governments.
All of us need to know and experience an awakening, a spiritual resurrection to the truth about the widespread sexual abuse crimes against children that are untreated and left without help or therapy.
UNICEF reports that seven million Filipino children are abused every year and get no help. One child in every three are victims of sexual abuse. Many people are aware of child abuse and many suffer in silence. They should help other victims and become advocates of child rights. That will be healing for them, too.
Defending the abuser and silencing the victim is wrong. Left alone, abusers will abuse many more children in their lifetime for sure. They ignore the words of Jesus who said about child abusers that a large millstone should be tied around their necks and they be thrown into the deep sea [Matthew 18:1-7]. They that deny, cover up child abuse and leave abusers to continue in a diocese [there are several in the Philippines] are in violation of the law of God and man. A single act of sexual intercourse against a child under 16 is statutory rape.
Many people are aware of child abuse and many suffer in silence. They should help other victims and become advocates of child rights. That will be healing for them, too
Some bishops have a misplaced fear of the imagined shame and disgrace clerical child abuse brings on them, on the priesthood, on their dioceses and on the Church and the loss of donations. This leads to abusive priests being sent to different parishes or sent abroad. That is totally flawed. They ought to be ashamed for xcovering up and failing to protect the child-victims. They need to have true faith, believe that acting justly will undo evil. Protecting children and serving justice is praise-worthy and to their everlasting merit.
They will be admired for following the instructions of good Pope Francis that there must be zero tolerance for clerical child abuse in the Church.
Doing good, speaking the truth and seeking justice for victims is having faith. When the disciples failed to help the children receive a blessing, Jesus was angry at them. “Allow the children to come to me and don’t stop them. The Kingdom of heaven is for the likes of these” [Mark 10:13 -16]. The rights and dignity of children are the top priority of Jesus. “When you accept one child you accept me” [Matthew18:1-6].
Child abuse is a grievous sin that even Jesus said it is hard to forgive. There must be accountability, penance and punishment, he said.
So many adults have been sexually abused as children by family members and they cannot emotionally face that painful historical truth. They must get help for other child-victims. Municipal social workers and NGOs like the Preda Foundation are there to help. People can just message to the Preda Foundation Facebook page in total confidentiality to report abuse.
There is no greater good one can do than to help a child. Help one today and every day. Call or text Preda +63 917 532 4453 and save a child.
Father Shay Cullen
www.preda.org
