We often find ourselves tightly bound to the precious gifts that God has given us—loving family, friends, dreams, and identities that shape our existence. Such attachments are natural, as God created us for love and purpose. When he asks us to surrender or detach from what we hold dear, we can choose to respond with trust, recognizing that our security lies not in clinging to blessings but in trusting God himself. This detachment is his sacred invitation to exchange our grasp on temporary gifts for a lasting connection with him. The emptiness we fear opens up space for discovering God as our ultimate fulfillment.
— Mylyn Cabigona
Three years ago, my British employer and their cherished poodle moved to Scotland, making letting go exponentially difficult. I needed to appear okay on the outside, even as I battled sorrow inside. They had become family to me. Over time, I accepted that we can’t be together forever, and we continue to communicate through WhatsApp, sharing photos and updates. The beautiful moments we enjoyed remain vivid in my memory. I trust that God has a better plan for us. He has strengthened me and reminded me of his everlasting love, which I accept with humility and compassion.
— Rowena Cada
There are certain people and possessions I would find hard to let go of, including my family, close friends, and items rich with memories. If asked to detach from them, I would feel deep sadness and confusion, as letting go feels like losing part of myself. After grappling with these feelings, I would seek to understand the reasons behind the detachment. True love sometimes necessitates change, and memories endure even when the people or things associated with them do not. Gradually, I would accept the situation while cherishing the lessons I learned. I trust that healing takes time and will face it with strength and gratitude, knowing that God has a purpose for everything.
—Melanie B. Echaluce
Detaching from certain people—friends, partners, or past relationships—can be a beneficial choice to alleviate pain. I set boundaries by unfollowing them on social media and exploring new hobbies. I confront the pain directly and work through my feelings. Above all, I pray, as it is the most effective remedy for achieving inner peace.
— Maricel Lobino
I have developed a strong attachment to reading, especially novels, which distracts me from my studies. I’ve realised the need for better time management. To succeed academically, I decided to discipline my focus, shifting it more towards my studies and addressing the imbalance caused by my novel-reading habits.
— Sheena P. Tagacay
My relationship with family and friends is deeply emotional, filled with both uplifting and challenging memories. Initially, I feared the prospect of detaching from them, as it required a complete emotional readjustment. To cope, I processed my emotions and limited communication to protect my peace. I let go and prayed earnestly, recognizing that forgiveness was essential, not for their sake but for my own serenity.
—Rona Mae Talaron
My attachments to family and close friends bring me love and support. Should I be asked to detach from them, it would be incredibly tough. I would remind myself that sometimes separation is necessary for personal growth and to focus on my goals with guidance from God.
— Wilma Villarda
